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Posted on March 30, 2025March 30, 2025 by Ella

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We are staying at the Fujiya Mae Ryokan, a traditional Japanese hotel in the town of Kawayu Onsen. Grubb is busy working on a post about our final hike yesterday.

Onsen indicates hot springs. You can get a scoop at the front desk, walk down to the river, dig yourself a little bathing area and soak in the hot water that bubbles up. I watched a couple do that (nice view of the river from our room). We decided unanimously…nope. Too much work.

Hot springs river

Fortunately, the ryokan has bathing rooms which require no digging. Onsen water is piped in. Yes, this is the Japanese communal bathing experience you’ve all heard about. The baths are gender segregated. Two areas available for men, two for women. One is “open air” and one not. I chose open air.

By the way, I’ve not seen any indication of how trans persons are viewed here when it comes to gender segregated baths.

There is a strict etiquette. You have to be squeaky clean before getting in. You go in nude, no fabric to contaminate the water. Tattoos are forbidden. Tattoos = Yakuza, the evil crime syndicate. If you have tattoos, you will need to find a tattoo friendly Onsen. There aren’t many.

I took the two provided towels, a small bath towel for drying off and a smaller white towel to scrub off every speak of dirt and sweat. I also took the provided yakuta for afterwards.  Grubb was hesitant and almost stayed behind to take a shower in our room but he got up the gumption. 

Not hard to find the women’s area

We found our respective bathing areas. I entered the women’s room. Shoes, slippers are left in a small entry area and then into the large dressing area you go. There were wooden shelves filled with cloth lined baskets and a sink area with supplies for before (make up removal) and after (lotions, hairdryer). Behind sliding doors was the bath .

Pretty clear
Privacy between the entry way and dressing room
Baskets for your belongings
Prep area

I undressed, leaving my clothes, yukata and drying off towel in a basket. I had the place to myself. I entered the bath area. A tiled space with rocks lining the edges of the large tile floored bath. A rock waterfall took up  one corner where the steamy hot onsen water was piped in. There was no front wall (thus “open air”). Instead, a bamboo screen high enough to maintain privacy from the outside.

Open air bath

But before slipping into the water…you have to be sparkling clean. There were six what I’ll call washing stations. Each had a low stool to sit on, a bucket, a handheld shower head, shampoo, conditioner and soap. Scrub-a-dub-dub using the smaller towel. If I had long hair I would somehow have to tie it up. Head hair not allowed to touch the Onsen water. You might have hair product or perhaps unrinsed conditioner…who knows. The Onsen water must remain pure.

Washing area

Finally, ready for prime time bathing, I folded the scrubbing towel and placed it on my head (this towel should never touch the Onsen water) and slid in the comfortably hot water. I glided over to the waterfall corner for extra warmth, placed my towel on a rock and big big big sigh.

Onsen water is thought to have healing properties. It didn’t bring my youth back but I sure felt as good as a 74 year old who has just spent four days challenging her body on rugged trails can.

Freshly clean, in yukata in the elevator

4 thoughts on “The art of bathing”

  1. Charles Crowley says:
    March 30, 2025 at 4:25 pm

    Good story, good experience. Are these baths a daily thing for locals? Weekly? Or more of a special occasion?

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    1. Ella says:
      March 30, 2025 at 5:09 pm

      I understand that many Japanese homes these days have their own private baths (like we do) but public baths and Onsen are still used (although less frequently) as a way to socialize and relax.

      Reply
  2. Sharen says:
    March 30, 2025 at 5:07 pm

    Sounds similar to a Mikvah! I went once about three years ago. Exactly same preparation to get in water. Only difference, we had to completely submerge before getting out.

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    1. Ella says:
      March 30, 2025 at 5:10 pm

      Oh interesting. Here there is a strict rule. One does not submerge one’s head.

      Reply

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